In a recent conversation with a friend about facing difficult work situations, she used the ubiquitous saying “fake it ’til you make it.” Listen up y’all… …it’s time for this saying to be officially and permanently retired! When we lovingly advise each other or ourselves to “fake it ’til you make it” we are, inadvertently, reinforcing a negative internal dialog that undercuts our progress. Although intended to send the positive, uplifting message of…